Archive for July, 2008

Right Where I Want To Be

Thursday, July 31st, 2008

After several hours of prayer and contemplation, we decided Promiseland was where we wanted Monkey to be in the fall. We felt the curriculum was nice at The Academy, but we tried to keep in perspective that she’s only three. The school part isn’t the most important aspect of her education right now, but rather learning to have a fire for the Lord is what we were looking for. And I feel as though the teachers and the director at Promiseland can plant the seed that will develop for years to come. And who knows, next year we could be in a completely different spot, but for right now, that’s right where we want to be.

We also really like the fact that the director at Promiseland has been there for eight years (seven as a director). We found online the meeting notes for the application for the extended day program, and it was well documented that she runs the facility as a preschool, even though they were not licensed as such (they are part of the church, and had permissions as a ministry). They have since been granted their license and should they expand they would look at leaving the church in which they currently share a space with. For whatever reason, their program speaks to my heart. (more…)

Love God First, Learning Second

Wednesday, July 30th, 2008

As I had mentioned before, I have been uneasy about the whole preschool thing… which is starting very soon. But, after a lot of prayer and thought, it is starting to occur to me that it could be more than just being sad about Monkey getting so big. Rather, deep down I could have mixed feelings about the decision we made to send her to The Academy at The Rock.

At first, we thought it would be ideal. She knows the facility and really likes the indoor playscape and is comfortable there. We love the church and feel Gods presence there.

However, the week I canceled our application to Promiseland, I started seeing signs that maybe we’d jumped into the decision to switch a little to quickly. The first thing that happened is a girlfriend from MOPS emailed me, excited about the fact that our kids were going to be in the same class together. I had to sadly inform her that I had withdrawn Brooklyn earlier that day. Just a few days after that, our neighbor told us her daughter was going there, and hoped we could carpool. Again, I had to explain we wouldn’t be attending. (more…)

Giggles To Share

Monday, July 28th, 2008

Everyone is finally on the mend, and to celebrate we went to Chuck E. Cheese on Saturday. We had a million things to do such as get the weeds caught up before we get a fine from the HOA, finish the slide show for a friends wedding, and back to school shop, but nonetheless we needed some play time so that’s what we did.  Monkey had a great time, and since we had tokens left over from another visit, our trip this time was free.  She giggled and ran from game to game, and this time she even put her own tickets in the ticket counting machine.

I have been in a funk about Monkey starting school in just 22 days, but I know she will have a great time.  Her love for learning new things is a passion I want to promote, therefore I have been torn between putting on a happy face for her, yet trying to stay honest and open about how much I will miss her while she’s gone.  Plus, she really does need a friend who will let her know she’s not always in charge.

Not only that, but we both need our routine back.  We haven’t attended the MOPS play dates because of various reasons – most of them health related – and I know how good they are for Monkey… but they are even better for me.

For me, when this group of women meet, without saying a word, we are bonded.  Most of us have chosen to stay home with our kids, so we can balance a check book, install a shelving unit, and get the kids bathed and out of the house before 9am, when we are determined.  We have all probably wiped a dirty nose (or a dirty butt) in the last 24 hours, and most likely all of our husbands have come home and busted us in our pj’s and thought ‘did she get dressed today?’

When Monkey and I don’t have to set the alarm, or make an effort to shower before 2pm, we get caught in this cycle of laziness that makes me feel like we are wasting our time together.  So, with that, I am off for now.  Off to shower and get to the store for the last minute wedding items we need for tonight.  Off to run errands and do what we have to do, so we can come home and do what we want to do…which involves a lot of play time and giggles to share.